Hudson Valley Child Custody Lawyer

Your Aggressive Child Custody Advocates Serving Dutchess County, New York

Divorce is practically always a problematic situation.

The intricacy of divorce grows dramatically when a married couple has a child together.

Most parents’ primary problems are child custody and visitation rights heading into a divorce. Therefore, it’s vital to have dedicated legal representation if you are bracing to negotiate your parental rights with your ex-spouse shortly.

An experienced Hudson Valley child custody attorney can provide direction security and ease your mind regarding some of the most challenging aspects of divorce in New York state. 

Custody disputes are stressful and emotionally charged. 

If you are involved in a custody dispute in Dutchess County, it is essential to understand New York's custody laws. 

The Hudson Valley child custody lawyers at Letterio & Haug, LLP have two decades of combined experience and extensive knowledge of New York divorce and custody laws to effectively advocate for you in court.

If you are involved in a child custody dispute in Dutchess County, contact our firm in Beacon, NY to learn how New York custody law applies to your situation. Call (845) 203-0997 to request a consultation with a Hudson Valley custody lawyer.

New York Custody Laws

In New York, courts can make decisions about child custody until that child is 18 years old. New York Courts use the standard of the best interests of the child when making custody decisions. The courts may take a variety of factors into consideration when awarding custody.

Factors considered by New York Courts include:

  • The ability of each parent to care for the child
  • The mental and physical well-being of each parent
  • Work schedules
  • The ability of parents to cooperate
  • Any history of domestic violence
  • The child’s wishes, depending on their age

Note that one parent does not have an advantage over the other in custody decisions in New York. The child can remain living with either parent until the case goes to court, and an order has been issued. As always, the orders will be made based on the child's best interests.

Each family situation is unique, and our Hudson Valley child custody attorneys provide personalized representation for each client. We are aggressive advocates for our clients. We take the time to understand your situation and provide compassionate and empathetic legal representation that is tailored to your circumstances.

Common Mistakes to Avoid During a Custody Dispute

Filing for Child Custody in NY

A parent, grandparent or a person with a substantial relationship with the child may file a petition for custody with the family court in the county where the child resides. It is of no cost to file a petition with the New York family court. Once the petition has been filed, a copy of the petition and a summons must be served to whoever currently has custody of the child. 

Types of Custody in NY

There are two basic types of custody: Legal custody and physical custody. Legal custody is the right to make decisions regarding the child’s education, medical care, and religious upbringing. Physical custody is where the child will live. Sole custody is when custody is awarded to one parent. In joint custody, the parents share custody of the children.

Legal Custody Versus Physical Custody

A parent who has legal custody can make decisions for the child’s care. This can include the child’s education, medical needs, and religion. Should the court issue a joint legal custody arrangement, both parents can make these decisions. If the courts issue “sole legal custody,” then only one parent is permitted to make these decisions.

This is a different arrangement from physical custody, which is also called “residential custody.” In this scenario, the child lives with the parent who has physical custody. Sole physical custody means that the child will live with that parent more than 50% of the time, and the other parent may have visitation rights. In a joint physical custody arrangement, the child lives with both parents. One example is when the child lives with one parent for a week, and then live with the other parent the next week, and so forth.

Types of Time-Sharing Arrangements

If you're involved in a custody battle, one of the first questions you need to answer is what kind of time-share you want. Below is some advice that can help you find the best solution for you and your child.

The 5-2, 2-5 or 4-3, 3-4 Time-Share

One of the most popular time-shares is a 5-2, 2-5 schedule wherein one parent has custody for five days, then switches off to the other parent for two days. At this point, the time-share flips so the first parent gets custody for two days, and the second for five (or for four and three, then three and four days in a 4-3, 3-4 schedule).

This kind of time-share is relatively flexible, enabling parents who may work on weekends to still spend quality time with their child. It also enables both parents to regularly help with their child's schoolwork, and switching custody frequently means parents and children spend less time without seeing one another.

Week-On, Week-Off

Another popular time-share enables the parents to switch custody every week. While this is a simple and easily manageable arrangement, it can be difficult for parents to pull off if they have different schedules, or if one parent has an unconventional work-life (working nights, traveling, working more than 40 hours a week, etc.).

What About Holidays?

Most parents adjust their time-share significantly when it comes to accomodating for holidays. For example, even if you have a week-on, week-off schedule and Christmas falls during a week when you have custody, you may want to have your child split time between you and your co-parent during Christmas Eve and on Christmas Day (or just spend those days together).

At Letterio & Haug, LLP, a Hudson Valley child custody lawyer on our team can help you pursue a custody arrangement that enables your child to truly thrive. To schedule a consultation, contact our office online or via phone at (845) 203-0997


Frequently Asked Questions

Who Can Get Custody of a Child?

Typically, either parent may receive custody of their child. One parent’s right to custody is not greater than the other parent’s right. However, the right to the care and custody of a minor child is not limited to parents. In certain circumstances, nonparents—such as grandparents, relatives, and others—can obtain custody of a child if doing so would be in the child’s best interests.

How Do I Prepare for a Custody Hearing?

  • Show that you are responsible and involved: If you have a temporary custody order in place, make sure you stick to it and avoid skipping scheduled visitation. Show you are reliable and responsible by picking up and dropping off your children on time. Additionally, if your children partake in afterschool activities, attend them to show you are engaged in their lives.
  • Make sure your home is safe and supportive: The home environment you provide for your children must be safe, loving, and supportive. If other individuals frequently visit your home, vet them. Anyone with a felony or a history of drug use should not be invited into your home. It would also be unwise to invite a new romantic partner to live with you or spend the night until after your divorce is finalized.
  • Exhibit good character: Showcasing good character is also crucial in a child custody case. Arguing with your ex in public or disparaging him or her to your children are not examples of showing good character. No matter how angry you are, a judge will not view this in a favorable light.
  • Work with your attorney: Your divorce attorney is looking out for you. However, to provide the services you need, it is essential for you to be entirely honest and avoid omitting important details. Regardless of the shame you might feel regarding some of the parenting mistakes you made in the past, you need to share them with your attorney. Lying will harm your chances of obtaining the custody arrangement you desire.
  • Do not be an uncooperative co-parent: Family courts generally believe the continued involvement of both parents is in the best interests of the children. If a judge believes you are being unsupportive of your children’s relationship with your ex, you will feel the negative consequences of it in court.

Can I Change the Terms of My Child Custody Arrangement?

Yes. A party can ask the court to modify the terms of an existing child custody order upon proof that there was a substantial change of circumstances since the court rendered its custody order. If you are on good terms with your former spouse, discuss the matter and try to hash out an agreement that works for both of you. That said, even if you agree to the changes you discuss, you must have the court’s approval to ensure it serves the best interests of the children. If you cannot work on an agreement with your former spouse, you can petition the court for a modification.

Below are some circumstances in which a judge may grant modification of custody order:

  • One parent is relocating
  • Parent or someone in a parent's household is abusive
  • A parent's work schedule changed
  • A child’s needs changed due to health, age, or other reasons
  • A parent is not complying with the current child custody order
  • There is a change in one of the parent’s ability to provide for the child

Can I Refuse to Allow Visitation for Unpaid Child Support?

No. A parent’s right to maintain a relationship with their children and spend time parenting them is not conditioned on their child support payment history. As a result, a parent may not deny another parent’s right to spend time with their child because they have otherwise failed to pay child support. A parent who does interfere with another person’s custodial or visitation rights may be subject to legal sanctions, possibly risking their own custodial rights under the existing custody agreement.

What Is Child Visitation?

In cases involving custodial arrangements where a child lives with one parent most of the time, the other parent can spend time with their child on certain days. This is known as “visitation” because the parent spends less parenting time with the child. This right stems from a parent’s right to maintain a close relationship with their children. A parent’s visitation rights are typically outlined in a visitation schedule that either the parties prepare or the court determines in a child custody case.

Can One Parent Move Away With the Child?

If the parent with physical custody wants to move somewhere that affects the other parent’s visitation, they must have permission from the other parent or the court before moving.

You can request permission from the court to relocate with your child by filing a custody modification petition with the help of the child custody lawyers in Hudson Valley at Letterio & Haug, LLP.

Put Experienced Dutchess County Child Custody Attorneys on Your Side

Our Hudson Valley child custody lawyer is ready to help you navigate the New York child custody process. Get started today by scheduling an initial consultation!

Do I Really Need A Lawyer For Child Custody?

If you are unsure about your case or your chances of winning the custody arrangement, then hiring a child custody lawyer is going to be your strongest option. An attorney can work on your behalf to compromise, which keeps you focused on your family.

Contact our Hudson Valley child custody lawyers by dialing (845) 203-0997 to schedule a consultation. We serve the counties of Dutchess, Putnam, Ulster, and Orange, and beyond.

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